Primary teaching · SEND · Neurodiversity · AuDHD awareness

Inclusive teaching, neurodiversity advocacy, and practical support for children to thrive.

I’m a qualified Primary School Teacher passionate about SEND, wellbeing, AuDHD awareness, and creating learning environments where every child feels safe, understood, and valued.

This site is written for young people, families, and adults — clear language, honest ideas, and respect first.

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A calm, practical focus

Inclusion first. Dignity first. Support that meets children where they are — not where assumptions expect them to be.

A warm welcome

This site is part classroom notebook, part advocacy notebook — practical, honest, and grounded in real teaching life. I share ideas that have lived in real lessons, real conversations, and real moments when a child needs support that doesn’t come from a script.

I write for children, young people, families, and educators: clear language, no talking down, and no pretending inclusion is simple when it isn’t. Whether you’re looking for SEND-aware strategies, calmer ways to talk about behaviour, or a bit of reassurance that you’re not getting it wrong by caring this much — you’re welcome here.

Portrait of Chloe Bates smiling — a friendly photo for families, teachers, and young people visiting the site.

If you care about dignity first — about children being seen for who they are, not only how they perform on a given day — I hope you’ll find something you can use. Take what helps, adapt what doesn’t, and leave the rest; this is meant to be a steady companion, not a performance.

Approach

Values that guide my practice

These aren’t buzzwords — they’re the standards I return to when decisions get noisy.

Inclusion

Every child deserves access to learning that respects who they are — not just who the timetable expects them to be.

Emotional safety

Children learn best when shame is low and trust is high — especially when needs are complex or misunderstood.

Understanding behaviour

Behaviour is information. The goal is curiosity first: what is this telling us, and what would genuine support look like?

Advocacy

A steady voice for children and families, and for systems that recognise neurodiversity without turning people into labels.

Regulation and wellbeing

Regulation skills are learned in relationship — through routine, co-regulation, and environments that don’t punish overwhelm.

Belonging

Belonging is more than inclusion on a policy. It’s the daily experience of being valued, even on hard days.

From the blog

Short, grounded writing on inclusion, regulation, and classroom realities.

Illustration about fight-or-flight responses — how bodies react to stress, worry, or feeling unsafe.

Mentoring & reflective support

If you’re looking for a calm space to think through inclusive practice, family–school dynamics, or neurodiversity-aware strategies, mentoring may be a good fit.

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Let’s connect

Whether you’re exploring collaboration, mentoring, or simply want to say hello — you’re welcome to reach out.